Yuhong class? Isn't it the name of all kindergartens now? She doesn't know much about these things.
Sister-in-law Yang said this, then the Yuhong class must be my kindergarten.
Fu Xueyao smiled and nodded: "Look at my memory, I've already remembered it wrong. It's the Yuhong Class."
Yang Chunhua looked sad and sighed: "I would like to, but I can't send it in at all."
"Li Jing was too young when he first came here, so I didn't feel comfortable putting him in a place with strangers."
"I sent him to the Yuhong class in the spring of this year. At the beginning, the child was very good and didn't cry or make trouble."
"After some time, I don't know what happened. He was crying and making trouble but refused to go to school. I even forced him to go with a stick."
"His father and I also thought that formal schooling would start in elementary school anyway, so we didn't let him go back."
Fu Xueyao blinked and asked, "Did Xiao Jing say why he doesn't want to go to the Yuhong class?"
Yang Chunhua recalled it carefully and shook her head: "He just said he didn't want to go to school."
"I think he's just too naughty and the kindergarten can't contain him."
After that, every time she thought about asking Li Jing to go to school, she would always frown and wallow in reluctance.
When asked why he didn't go, he couldn't tell.
Fu Xueyao patiently listened to Yang Chunhua's words and started thinking at the same time.
If a child is willing to go to school at first, but suddenly becomes unwilling, there must be some special reason.
It is impossible to suddenly become tired of studying.
Moreover, in Yuhong class, there are not only many friends, but also no homework burden. Most children will not refuse.
In addition, Sister-in-law Yang said she was unwilling to go to school even if she was beaten with a stick. There must be someone or something in the parenting class that Li Jing avoided.
Fu Xueyao blinked. Logically speaking, this was someone else's family matter and she shouldn't be involved in it.
But she thought Li Jing's child looked chubby and cute, and Sister-in-law Yang was also a nice person, so she couldn't help but mention it: "Sister-in-law, I think you can patiently ask why."
"Children of this age are actually very sensitive. Now he doesn't want to go to Yuhong class for some reasons. When he grows up, he may refuse to go to elementary school because of the same problem."
"If he really encounters something, he will easily develop psychological problems."
After a pause, she added: "Sister-in-law, you have to be gentle when talking to your child."
"If something happens, try to induce him to speak out. Don't force him. Children have their own logic and tend to accept soft words rather than hard words."
Fu Xueyao then elaborated on the dangers of common psychological problems.
For children of several years old, adults often subconsciously ignore their true inner thoughts because they are so young, and do not pay too much attention to the childish words in their mouths.
But this age is a critical period for the formation of a child's personality.
Children are easily influenced by the thoughts and attitudes of those around them.
Fu Xueyao felt that there were two possible reasons why Li Jing was unwilling to go to school.
One is because he was bullied. This kind of bullying made him rather be beaten by his parents than go to school.
The other is to do something that makes him feel embarrassed and he is ashamed to go to school.
No matter which one of the two it is, Fu Xueyao feels that it needs to be solved.
Anyway, she said everything she needed to say, and it was up to Sister-in-law Yang whether she listened or not.
Yang Chunhua patiently listened to everything Fu Xueyao said.
After several brief interactions, she felt that Fu Xueyao had read a lot of books and knew a lot of knowledge, although she couldn't quite understand some words.
But she just believed what Fu Xueyao said.
After my son came back, he was indeed too resistant to going to school. Maybe something really happened at school.
As Fu Xueyao said, it is best if there is no problem. If there is any problem, it will be bad if it affects the child in the future.
Yang Chunhua promised: "Okay, I will ask Li Jing carefully."
She looked at Fu Xueyao: "Xiaoyao, thank you for telling me so much today."
Yang Chunhua knew that Fu Xueyao was not a nosy person. She just said so much because she regarded her as a friend and cared about her.
If it were anyone else, who would be willing to say such a thankless thing?
Yang Chunhua: "By the way, you said you wanted my help when you first walked in, right?"
She almost forgot.
I remembered it only when I glanced at the apples and candies on the table.
Her face turned red with embarrassment, and Xiaoyao took the fruit and candy again.
I don't know if she can help with this. She is a rural woman who knows nothing...
Fu Xueyao smiled and said, "Sister-in-law, didn't I just move here? I just want to hold a greenhouse reception on Saturday."
"I would like to invite a few neighbors and some comrades from Xingzhou to come over with the leaders to warm up the house and make it lively."
"But there are a lot of people here, and there are a lot of dishes to cook. I'm worried that I won't be able to handle them all, so I want to ask my sister-in-law to come over and help."
Yang Chunhua waved her hand and said with a smile: "So this is what you are talking about. What was I doing at the time? There will definitely be no problem in leaving this to me."
She may not be able to play a role in other things, but she can still cook.
After all, she has been hanging around the stove for more than ten years.
She has also helped with the hothouse wine several times.
As long as it can help.
"I've helped other people do it several times. Don't worry, I'll make it look great for you and won't embarrass you."
Fu Xueyao looked unhappy: "Sister-in-law, you said something, but don't say it again next time."
"I'm here to trouble my sister-in-law. How could it be related to the word shame?"
"If you say this, you don't regard me as a friend."
Fu Xueyao's tone was gentle and gentle.
After hearing this, Yang Chunhua couldn't help but curl her lips.
She knew why she liked getting along with Fu Xueyao so much.
Because every word she said was comforting to listen to.
This is what a person who has read books looks like in her mind.
His eyes are clear and his tone is sincere, making people feel particularly comfortable when getting along with him.
And the friend she talked about turned out to be her friend.
These two words sound so nice.
Fu Xueyao then said: "Sister-in-law, I need to borrow your table and stool that day."
"When there are more people here, the table and chairs in my house won't be enough."
Yang Chunhua agreed without hesitation: "Take whatever you want."
Every household in the army holds a hothouse reception, and they always have to borrow tables and chairs from other families.
Before, when she served wine, she borrowed it from neighbors.
