Suddenly, Sister-in-law Yang's eyes flashed, and she asked a little embarrassedly: "But I really want to ask for advice."
Fu Xueyao: "Sister-in-law, do you really believe in the secret recipe?"
Does she really look like a descendant of Miao territory?
Although she has experienced such bizarre things as soul traveling, she still doesn't believe in these strange things. After all, seeing is believing.
Sister-in-law Yang waved her hand: "I don't believe it. I want to ask something else."
In her opinion, the secret skills were similar to those of the old witches in the village.
She doesn't believe in these things. She believes in herself more than in the illusory.
Vice Captain Lu has changed so much just because he married Xiaoyao. If it had been anyone else, he would definitely not have gotten married.
Sister-in-law Yang looked coy and whispered, "I just want to ask how you can train a man to be submissive?"
Fu Xueyao: "Pfft, it turns out that my sister-in-law wants to do this."
Yang Chunhua blushed.
"Sister-in-law, it's okay if you speak louder, it's quite normal."
"It's not something to be shy or timid about if your husband wants to be nice to you and listen to yourself."
Yang Chunhua narrowed her eyes: "Really?"
Since she was a teenager, her parents have told her daughter that her family is not valuable and that the boy is the treasure of the family.
So she and her sister do all the farm work at home.
After getting married, her mother-in-law always said that she had enjoyed great blessings by marrying Li Hong. She said that Li Hong was a cadre in the army and she was just a simple rural woman.
They always accuse her of not being considerate of her parents-in-law, but she clearly does the most work at home.
She vaguely felt in her heart that what these people said was wrong, but she couldn't find a reason to refute it.
Because every household in the village seems to be like this.
But to her, sons and daughters are the same, and she will not prefer boys like those people.
She didn't say these words to anyone else, not even Li Hong, for fear of being laughed at.
The appearance of Xiaoyao made her feel that women in the world could live like this.
She knows a lot of knowledge, but she never looks down on others, and she will patiently teach her something.
She told her that it turns out that women don’t have to hang around men, stoves, and children all day long in this world.
It turns out that there are some things that men can do, and they are not all girls’ jobs.
Fu Xueyao's eyes were as bright as stars, and she affirmed, "Of course."
"However, I don't know how to teach a man to be submissive."
Yang Chunhua immediately asked: "Why."
Fu Xueyao was silent for a few seconds: "Because Lu Xingzhou's songs are all like this."
She only fell in love and got married this time, and she was really not a master of emotions.
Yang Chunhua said heartily: "I should have known better than to ask that question."
In fact, there is another reason. There are differences between people. Teachers have to teach students in accordance with their aptitude.
Some men are just mean and they won't change no matter what.
Fu Xueyao glanced at Yang Chunhua: "Sister-in-law, I think you can actually make your request to Deputy Commander Li first. The family needs to be maintained by both parties, not you alone."
Yang Chunhua: "The first one makes a request, is this okay? What if he doesn't want to."
If you think about it carefully, it seems that she has never asked a man to do any housework, and it is she who takes care of the children.
Fu Xueyao has actually talked to Sister-in-law Yang several times. From her words, she knows that Yang Chunhua is basically responsible for everything at home.
Because she had previously regarded taking care of the children and doing housework as her own business.
Nor would he ask Deputy Commander Li to do it.
Of course, Deputy Commander Li did not ask for help.
Maybe he takes this for granted, or maybe it has become a habit, tacitly assuming that he only needs to make money and not worry about other things.
She still remembered another thing Sister-in-law Yang said last time.
Li Jing was bullied, and Li Hong and Yang Chunhua found those people to apologize to the child.
Judging from this incident, Deputy Captain Li actually still has room for improvement. Although he is a macho man and loves face, he can throw away some things for the sake of his children instead of being stubborn.
Fu Xueyao: "Let's start with something simple."
"When he's done, you can turn on the bragging mode."
Yang Chunhua: "Exaggerate the model?"
Fu Xueyao responded with a smile: "Just praise him. For example, after he sweeps the floor, you can say how you swept it so cleanly. You are so awesome. You sweep much cleaner than me. I really look forward to seeing you sweep the floor every day." Such a clean floor.”
"If there is anything that needs improvement, you can point it out after praising it. The sentence structure is if..., for example, if the corners can be cleaned more when cleaning, that would be more perfect."
"Praise is actually not only something that children crave, adults are also the same, especially adults who rarely receive praise. They may pretend not to care on the surface, but they are still very happy on the inside."
A hint of surprise flashed in Yang Chunhua's eyes: "Really?"
Fu Xueyao asked, "Then when I praise you, do you like it very much?"
Yang Chunhua's eyes lit up and she nodded.
It seemed to be the case. Being praised by Xiaoyao made her heart warm. She really felt that she had many advantages and she was much more energetic at work.
Fu Xueyao nodded clearly, with a hint of cunning flashing in her eyes: "Let me tell you secretly, Lu Xingzhou also likes to be praised."
(Lu Xingzhou: I just like to hear my wife’s compliments, thank you. (expressionless))
At this time, Lu Xingzhou, who was sitting in the car, suddenly sneezed and rubbed his nose: It's such a hot summer, does he still have a cold? It’s time to step up your exercise routine.
After hearing what Fu Xueyao said, Yang Chunhua was convinced of this.
She said excitedly: "Is there any more?"
Fu Xueyao combined her experience with the knowledge acquired from the Internet and told Yang Chunhua everything she thought was appropriate.
After listening, Yang Chunhua looked eager to try.
Fu Xueyao: "Actually, there is a more important point. The key to this point is to be yourself."
Yang Chunhua pointed at herself: "Me?"
Be yourself, how to be yourself?
Fu Xueyao: "Sister-in-law, you put yourself first, and then you are someone else's wife and the mother of your child."
“If you don’t love you, who else can love you.”
Yang Chunhua was startled. This was the first time she heard this statement.
But it feels right.
This may sound unrelated to the previous topic, but it is actually very closely related.
Getting along as a husband and wife is not just about trivial matters such as daily necessities such as food, rice, oil, and salt, but also requires feelings as a bond.
Of course, just to reluctantly form a family together, just pretend she didn't say it.
But it was obvious from Sister-in-law Yang's words that she still liked Deputy Commander Li.
The two continued talking while Yang Chunhua prepared to make dinner.
Before leaving, Yang Chunhua wanted Fu Xueyao to go to her house for dinner.
After all, Fu Xueyao was alone at the moment.
But Fu Xueyao still refused.
